This is a thoughtful look at how some experiences stay with us even when the other person may not realize their impact. The idea that healing does not mean forgetting feels especially true. 🌿
Well written. The dicodomy between the worth of that relationship to us & the space/ hole that remains after it has ended. I hold many people, who've shaped me & my worldview, in my head- that part that feels like my heart. My healing came while learning to live with the hole(s). Not trying to fill them in, just letting them be. Realizing I could carry the memories & that relationship while also not having it- while experiencing emotions that felt similar, but were different because I was with someone else. The brain can hold many truths, many relationships, while still living a separate meaningful life. I have learned to look at grief, lose and conversation as ongoing expanses of a life well lived. ❤️🩹
It’s gone very hard to like just remembering and just let it go but we have to do for the life because life’s exactly work like this like just do your best in every where no matter where u are just give ur best it’s the solution of this problem maybe but whom want to just goo so they will do so it’s not our problem but make sure u gave ur 100 percent in that situationship yah waht ever
This is a thoughtful look at how some experiences stay with us even when the other person may not realize their impact. The idea that healing does not mean forgetting feels especially true. 🌿
Well written. The dicodomy between the worth of that relationship to us & the space/ hole that remains after it has ended. I hold many people, who've shaped me & my worldview, in my head- that part that feels like my heart. My healing came while learning to live with the hole(s). Not trying to fill them in, just letting them be. Realizing I could carry the memories & that relationship while also not having it- while experiencing emotions that felt similar, but were different because I was with someone else. The brain can hold many truths, many relationships, while still living a separate meaningful life. I have learned to look at grief, lose and conversation as ongoing expanses of a life well lived. ❤️🩹
It’s gone very hard to like just remembering and just let it go but we have to do for the life because life’s exactly work like this like just do your best in every where no matter where u are just give ur best it’s the solution of this problem maybe but whom want to just goo so they will do so it’s not our problem but make sure u gave ur 100 percent in that situationship yah waht ever
To remove the feeling from the emotions involved in any experience which isn’t in your favor